You could socialize with people face to face, or you can be a neurotic dipshit who talks to a screen all day through your fingers. That doesn’t make you cool, it’s makes you socially incompetent.
If a platform’s most efficient layer of abstraction is text, what are you doing with your public friends lists and stupid pictures you beg people to care about? You’re pushing like buttons all day. You’re being trained by the creators of social media. Do you really think they’re a good example of human being? Do you think they care about you at all?